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Indians responding to compliments by making a gift of the item?

I love Indian (as in India, not Native Americans) jewelry and clothing and am wondering about something that has happened when I have complimented women on their appearance. I told a woman who was a customer in a shop I work at that I thought the shawl she wore was very beautiful and she told me she made it and insisted very sweetly that I take it as a gift. I thanked her as well as I could. Then today, I was in a restaurant and complimented the server on her earrings and tol her how pretty they were. She removed them immediately and also insisted I have them. Both times I refused the gift and only accepted when the lady repeatedly insisted.

My question is this: Is this a cultural tradtion and I should be aware of NOT complimenting items because the owner feels obligated to give it? Or am I supposed to reciprocate? I certainly don’t want to take advantage of someone being so kind hearted and generous.

Does anyone know how to best handle this? Beyond saying Thank You of course.

Sounds like you have a nice little thing going on! Yes, of course this is a well-known and widespread tradition of generosity. You comment on how much you like something, and it becomes a gift. It’s the reason people sometimes look at you funny when you say how much you like their car. This isn’t so common in the US since we are such avid shoppers and you can just tell someone where you got it, or the web adddress and the price. You should definitely reciprocate.

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Multi Bead Strand Necklace and Matching Earrings, Made in India This is a necklace and earring set that is made in India. The necklace is multi stranded cascading mini beads, approx. 28 stands per necklace. The strands as well as the of the beads are available in a variety of colors, so you can choose the one(s) that best matches your outfit. The earrings are dangle earrings and will match the colors of the beads on the necklace….

Goldtone Green Thread Earrings (India) $18.99 This double dose of charm is the cure for the common earring. Earthy green and gold cotton threads are anchored by burnished spirals of brass, perfectly complementing the warm shades of these handmade earrings.

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Sterling Silver ‘Gem Cascade’ Multi-gemstone Earrings (India) $113.99 Brilliant petals in sterling silver form unique earrings. India’s Neeru Goel creates original gemstone earrings in a mosaic of garnet, amethyst, citrine and peridot.

Silvertone Round Ebony Earrings (India) $13.49 These stylish earrings feature a black onyx gemstone dangling from a unique crown setting. These unique earrings are handcrafted by artisans in India.

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Sterling Silver ‘Distinction’ Onyx Drop Earrings (India) $48.99 Alternating with silver beads, polished onyx ovals culminate in a sleek black globe in handcrafted earrings. India’s Narayani highlights their rich contrast as she designs earrings of perennial elegance.

Sterling Silver Aquamarine Earrings (India) $29.86 These earrings focus on brilliant round aquamarine gemstones which capture the enduring allure of the sea with its glittering blue-green hues. A prong setting in sterling silver adds a bit of flair without overwhelming the simplicity of these earrings.

Sterling Silver ‘Drifting Petals’ Peridot Dangle Earrings (India) $71.99 Suspended on sterling stems, peridot petals drift in the summer breeze in these enchanting earrings. India’s Hema designs and handcrafts these elegant earrings.

Brass Circles Earrings (India) $12.99 The looped circles of brass give a dash of unique style to these earrings, handmade by artisans in India who receive a fair wage for their labor. This piece of jewelry will elegantly upgrade any wardrobe.

Mystic Quartz Sterling Silver Earrings (India) $38.89 A kaleidoscope of brilliant color shines in this pair of vibrant earrings. Our mystic quartz earrings feature a contemporary cushion cut and are set in premium sterling silver plated with 18k gold.

Sterling Silver Labradorite Earrings (India) $32.19 These stylish iridescent labradorite earrings, with their signature blue color flickers with rainbow hues and are surrounded by small sterling silver beads that provide a subtle embellishment.

Handcrafted Sterling Silver ‘Forest Mist’ Labradorite Earrings (India) $53.99 Deep and mysterious, labradorite is surrounded by droplets of silver mist in these handcrafted earrings. India’s Neeru Goel designs stunning earrings of extraordinary beauty to showcase the gem’s allure.

Sterling Silver Spiral Hoop Earrings (India) $59.99 Simple yet elegant, these earrings showcase a stylish spiral hoop design. These earrings are handcrafted from sterling silver by artisans in India.

Ripple Earrings (India) $20.09 Have fun wearing these handmade ripple earrings from India. A few thin, rigid silver bangles are entwined together to make one flattering piece.

18k Goldplated Sterling Silver Green Amethyst Earrings (India) $44.99 Immerse yourself in the beauty of these handmade earrings. These modern green amethyst earrings are set in 18-karat goldplated sterling silver.

Handcrafted White Opal Earrings (India) $36.99 Add a classic touch to any outfit with these beautiful, elegant opal earringsEarring hand from shepherd hooksJewelry is handcrafted by a talented Indian artisan

Tear Drop Dangle Earrings (India) $24.09 These lovely dangle earrings feature blueish green glass bead and goldtone bead clusters. Lever-back clasps and a high polish finish complete the design of this stylish pair of tear drop earrings.

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Sterling Silver ‘Radiant Petals’ Moonstone Flower Earrings (India) $46.99 Surrounded by a halo of petals, moonstone blossoms are radiant as a pair of handcrafted earrings. India’s Neeru Goel designs exquisite earrings that set the lovely gems in sterling silver.

Sterling Silver Amethyst Earrings (India) $40.99 These handcrafted round-cut amethyst earrings are faceted to show off the exceptional quality of the stone, as well as reflect maximum light.

Brass and Teal Glass Beaded Earrings (India) $17.49 Adorn yourself with these beautiful brass and glass earrings. Handcrafted by artisans in India, these lovely goldtone earrings will highlight both casual and formal attire.

Sterling Silver ‘Constellations’ Lapis Lazuli Earrings (India) $69.99 A golden constellation glistens in a blue universe in an admirable pair of earrings from Neeru Goel. She contrasts lapis lazuli’s glowing beauty with the ornate silver motifs of these earrings.

Sterling Silver ‘Cloudfall’ Moonstone Dangle Earrings (India) $19.99 Falling in a precious cascade, beads of rainbow moonstone culminate in beautifully handcrafted pair of earrings. By India’s Narayani, elegant earrings exalt the precious gems in sterling silver settings.

Pearl and Smoky Quartz Earrings (India) $19.99 Indian designer Ritu casts a spell of elegance with this hand-crafted earrings. This jewelry piece features uncut smokey quarts and cultured pearls.

Sterling Silver ‘Dark Shower’ Onyx Waterfall Earrings (India) $50.99 Cascading from black blossoms, a shower of onyx is seductively beautiful in these handcrafted earrings. India’s Bhavesh presents these stunning earrings, set with the stone thought to foster visions and guidance through dreams.

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Sterling Silver ‘Dream of India’ Amethyst Dangle Earrings (India) $64.99 Encased in sterling silver, amethyst glows with impassioned mystical elegance, creating unique earrings. India’s Neeru Goel designs this stunning handmade pair of earrings, evidencing her passion for Indian jewelry styles.

Goldplated Turquoise Raindrop Earrings (India) $43.99 These beautiful goldplated dangle earrings have a turquoise raindrop design. The handcrafted jewelry will add a delicate elegance to any outfit on any occasion.

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Sterling Silver ‘Fire Goddess’ Amethyst Dangle Earrings (India) $49.99 Surrounded by a halo of flames, amethysts reveal an innate splendor on this pair of handcrafted earrings. India’s Neeru Goel designs earrings that set the lovely lilac gems in sterling silver.

Sterling Silver ‘Dance in the Mist’ Onyx Aventurine Earrings (India) $21.99 Crowned by uncut aventurine, faceted globes of onyx seem to dance in these handcrafted earrings. India’s Narayani designs elegant dangle earrings, adding diminutive sterling silver beads for contrast.

Sterling Silver Chalcedony Earrings (India) $29.85 Simple yet breathtaking, these spectacular earrings offer a classic design that stands the test of time. Tiny sterling silver beads surround a large center gemstone, creating a luminosity that speaks to the earrings’ quality and craftsmanship.

Brass Mother of Pearl and Purple Bead Earrings (India) $14.99 These earrings feature oval backdrops of mother of pearl with purple faceted glass beads hanging from a brass chain. Handmade by artisans in India, these earrings hang from leverback clasps.

Sterling Silver Blue Topaz Earrings (India) $42.99 Every day becomes an occasion when you sport these luminous blue topaz earrings. The deliciously oversized stone packs a one-two punch of radiance and glamor, with a hypnotic shimmer that draws admiring glances.

Gold Plated Glorious Earrings (India) $29.99 Simple yet elegant, these stylish earrings feature a unique filigree design. Crafted with a highly polished goldtone finish, these handcrafted earrings are a stylish piece of world art.

Sterling Silver Peridot ‘Lemon Drops’ Earrings (India) $48.9 Enhance your style with these peridot earringsEarrings feature faceted peridot set in sterling silverJewelry showcases green charm centers

Garnet Sterling Silver Earrings (India) $41.99 The deep, bold red of the garnets featured in these classic earrings lends an intensity rarely found in other pieces of jewelry. An ample garnet is mounted in a simple band and surrounded by a coiled ring on this jewelry.

Sterling Silver Citrine Earrings (India) $39.82 Simple yet breathtaking, these spectacular earrings offer a classic design that stands the test of time. Tiny sterling silver beads surround a large center gemstone, creating a luminosity that speaks to the earring’s quality and craftsmanship.

Citrine ‘Whirligig’ Drop Earrings (India) $37.49 Hook earrings feature intricate silver chains that spin like whirligigs Delightful earrings culminate in citrine teardropsHandmade jewelry is crafted of .925 silver

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Sterling Silver Labradorite Earrings (India) $40.99 Like the ultimate guilty pleasure, you’ll feel a delicious thrill whenever you wear these gorgeous labradorite earrings. The unique stone has an unmistakable deep blue iridescence that makes it an ideal choice for this understated sterling silver setting.

Sterling Silver Onyx Earrings (India) $22.89 Deceptively simple, these handmade onyx earrings offer new details with every glance. The faceted onyx center stone is edged by a smooth sterling silver border and nestled against a contrasting coil.

Quartz ‘Queen of Jaipur’ Earrings (India) $67.99 Teardrop smokey and yellow quartz sparkle with crystalline beauty on these elegant earringsHandmade jewelry is crafted of .925 sterling silverAlluring earrings are the perfect addition to any ensemble

Sterling Silver Rhodochrosite Dangle Earrings (India) $24.49 Earrings will make a great gift or addition to your accessoriesWorld jewelry features blue rhodochrosite gems in sterling silver settingsHandmade earrings each measure 0.38 inch wide x 1 inch long